Ego will get in the way of your success, be humble and learn you will benefit most from this frame. Most guys no matter what level, value their skills with the opposite sex way too high even though they are getting a minimal percentage of successes in a particular skill set, and therefore the scraps of the men who truly appreciate what it takes to be successful at all levels of seduction.
I have coached the elite of the elite over the years, when some of them first came to me it was with arrogance, feeling they had to out Alpha me, proving that they were as good as or better than me, in every which way. This is a weak mentality, it is frayed with insecurity, and it results in a major setback for many men’s growth. Not that those coaches weren’t as talented or as technical as I was, just that their mental state was all wrong. This is as true for the elite, as is for those who are new to seduction excellence.
As a coach it is one of the key RoadBlock’s that I have to overcome in their growth, so that I can elevate their success rate. This really hit home adding friends to my Myspace account, being a friendly person I was adding as many people as I could, knowing that I would meet some great people along the way. On those travels some, once reading my interests would comment to the friend request, “Does it look like I need help dating?” In some cases, it clearly did look like they needed help just by glossing over their page. Some had their pages full of MyWhore friends which anyone could friend request and they would add them(strippers, models, dj’s, film wannabe’s, rockstars?, etc. Being a gentleman, I didn’t answer straight, or else I would have offended them, and my intention was to make friends. Most who were curious enough to search further admitted to their inadequacies, and I was able to offer them a free gift from the Paragon Project called, “A Crash Course in Seduction,” which freely has changed their life, but this concerned me.
Now my focus is on all the men out there (BAP) in the hopes that I can get you to expand and explode your results into a new stratosphere. Your main RoadBlock is Factor 80 if you can achieve it than you have attained a level far beyond the average successful male.
What is Factor 80?
I will explain to you exactly what it is, but I need you to open yourself to failure. That’s right I need you to be able to experience failure to succeed, the beauty is that you already have. Very few people have attained Factor 80, and the RoadBlock to attaining it is their ego. How can you improve your results if you don’t claim to have a problem?
Have you read some experts reports and massaged your own ego by telling yourself you could do that even though you never tried it?
Here is a list of signs if your ego is getting in the way of your success, can you answer affirmatively to all of these:
Do you approach 80% of the interesting people you meet on adultfrienedfinder, especially hotties?
Can you open 80% of the Groups/People you approach successfully?
After getting contact details, do you convert 80% of the calls or emails into dates/events?
Are you able to lay 80% of the club girls you actually pick-up?
Can you convert 80% of these women/friends into long-term relationships?
This is what we at the Paragon Project call Factor 80, do you have it?
Now I don’t mean feel good results, I mean actual numbers, since it is in your best interests to track everything you do, so that it not only sounds good but in actuality brings you results (write it on a slip of paper).
If you can’t say yes to 80% and Factor 80 then you have work to do to reach a state of seduction excellence.
Fortunately, for you we have “A Crash Course in Seduction” which is a free online book that has not been disabled in any way, to get you up to speed (compares favourably to any paid offering on the market) and we offer many advanced systems to obliterate any roadBlock you’ll encounter.
Don’t cheat yourself out of the good life, when you can have the best!